I find myself suddenly single after eleven years; I enjoy fly fishing, going to the mountains & live theater. The Arts, eating out, and a good book. Like most of us, I am attracted to the hunky, young, hairy muscle boy, but am wise enough to know that probably ain't gonna happen, so I would like to meet the normal, midlife who is mature, settled and also looking for that special friend to pal around with and get to know intimately.

I am looking for relationships, of many types. From lets do lunch, to come stay the night. From can you go (fly)fishing this weekend to dinner and a movie with a friend. No drugs, no booze, no drama, no bull sh.. I like lattes, musicals, hairy chests, and honesty. I am not effeminate, but (I like to be treated like a lady) so flowers and jewelery will not be refused. My ex was rather possessive and consequently I don't have (any) male companions to hang with. So what do you think?